IF YOU ARE IN THE HOUSE ...
Being at home alone is not identical with the saturated and
behind.
Develop your own potential is a necessity.
For Arni (32 yrs), time is not composed of minute
by minute, or
hour after hour. But work for work
continuous
connect within 24 hours. Busy raising three
plus toddler
housework makes it run out of steam.
Let alone for
develop themselves, sometimes he does not rest only
chance.
As a result, she often felt depressed, tired and fed up
with
routine at home.
If you feel like Arni, the following things
may
help you:
1. Conscious choice
Women, like men are human beings who have
the right to
choose. Certainly all these options can
accountable before God Almighty. At home
just-whatever
why-is also an option. Actually,
you could always
Just choose a career outside the home. In
choose, it is important
for us to realize the philosophy of choice, namely
obtain a
things at once lose something else. Therefore, when
at home
be an option, you should stop wishing
or hold-
constantly regret it. Except if you indeed intend
change
your choice.
2. Be aware of consequences
When choosing, you should also realize
consequences
may arise from your choice, well prepared
bear. Taste
saturated, to develop the potential and limitations
etc., for example, is one possibility that must be
you are facing.
Realizing the consequences of making you better prepared
live it. Learn
also what the benefits of your choice. For example, no matter how
saturated, you
will have plenty of time to educate children and
relationship
with neighbors.
3. Prepare Strategy
By studying the plus minus your options, formulate
your strategy.
What will you do to overcome the saturation;
what could be
you do to develop themselves, associate
your strategy
choose your destination. If you chose to be in
home for
children's education, you should take concrete steps
for
achieve it. Spend more time with children
than
struggling with homework, for example, or
diligent, industrious reading
child psychology articles and so on. Thus
presence
Your home really useful.
4. Take Time For Refreshing Ruhiah and Emotion
Your
Routines are ongoing can make
your tired
and long. Take a little time to do
things that can
make you a 'fresh' again. Night prayer, reading
Qur'an,
reflect on one or two verses of the Qur'an, dhikr,
spend and
etc. can provide energy supplies for ruhiyah
you. Your
can do it alone, with her husband or
with the children.
Also there is no harm in refreshing your emotions
do
activities that can make you feel good ..
Gardening or
reading books can make you re-light
fresh. So
also visited the home of a friend. In
fresh state,
you'll be better prepared to carry out your mission at home.
5. Empower Yourself
What did you feel after many years in
home? Whether
increase your knowledge? Would you be more
skilled?
Do you have a wider horizon? Or
vice versa?
Empower yourself! Being at home does not have
make yourself
you 'squirt' and did not develop. Seek knowledge
through
variety of existing media. Read the writings
can
enlighten you. Complete your knowledge
things
more optimally useful to take part at home.
A time to
to read with the routine, though only half
hours a day.
behind.
Develop your own potential is a necessity.
For Arni (32 yrs), time is not composed of minute
by minute, or
hour after hour. But work for work
continuous
connect within 24 hours. Busy raising three
plus toddler
housework makes it run out of steam.
Let alone for
develop themselves, sometimes he does not rest only
chance.
As a result, she often felt depressed, tired and fed up
with
routine at home.
If you feel like Arni, the following things
may
help you:
1. Conscious choice
Women, like men are human beings who have
the right to
choose. Certainly all these options can
accountable before God Almighty. At home
just-whatever
why-is also an option. Actually,
you could always
Just choose a career outside the home. In
choose, it is important
for us to realize the philosophy of choice, namely
obtain a
things at once lose something else. Therefore, when
at home
be an option, you should stop wishing
or hold-
constantly regret it. Except if you indeed intend
change
your choice.
2. Be aware of consequences
When choosing, you should also realize
consequences
may arise from your choice, well prepared
bear. Taste
saturated, to develop the potential and limitations
etc., for example, is one possibility that must be
you are facing.
Realizing the consequences of making you better prepared
live it. Learn
also what the benefits of your choice. For example, no matter how
saturated, you
will have plenty of time to educate children and
relationship
with neighbors.
3. Prepare Strategy
By studying the plus minus your options, formulate
your strategy.
What will you do to overcome the saturation;
what could be
you do to develop themselves, associate
your strategy
choose your destination. If you chose to be in
home for
children's education, you should take concrete steps
for
achieve it. Spend more time with children
than
struggling with homework, for example, or
diligent, industrious reading
child psychology articles and so on. Thus
presence
Your home really useful.
4. Take Time For Refreshing Ruhiah and Emotion
Your
Routines are ongoing can make
your tired
and long. Take a little time to do
things that can
make you a 'fresh' again. Night prayer, reading
Qur'an,
reflect on one or two verses of the Qur'an, dhikr,
spend and
etc. can provide energy supplies for ruhiyah
you. Your
can do it alone, with her husband or
with the children.
Also there is no harm in refreshing your emotions
do
activities that can make you feel good ..
Gardening or
reading books can make you re-light
fresh. So
also visited the home of a friend. In
fresh state,
you'll be better prepared to carry out your mission at home.
5. Empower Yourself
What did you feel after many years in
home? Whether
increase your knowledge? Would you be more
skilled?
Do you have a wider horizon? Or
vice versa?
Empower yourself! Being at home does not have
make yourself
you 'squirt' and did not develop. Seek knowledge
through
variety of existing media. Read the writings
can
enlighten you. Complete your knowledge
things
more optimally useful to take part at home.
A time to
to read with the routine, though only half
hours a day.
